So I'm laying in bed thinking away & thought to myself heck why don't I just share this thought for once.
I brutally drives me crazy on how much young parents single, partnered, male or female get bashed down emotionally by teens our age, older parents & mostly society about almost anything & everything we do, wether it's treating ourselves once in a while, letting our hair down. Maybe we've had a lazy day in pj's or a lazy night & ordered pizza for dinner. We get so harshly judged on everything. I find it so stressful because it hard enough being a young parent let alone dealing with the nasty stereotypes place on our shoulders. We're all trying our best & doing what we believe best for our family/child/ren to keep the happy, safe & loved. But to be on the other end of all the nasty stereotypes or rude judgement is so hard because we continue to doubt our beliefs or ability to do our darn best without being frowned apon constantly by others. We stress our selves out trying to prove these stereotypes wrong, that we can do it & that we're just as capable with a little bit of extra hurtles in life to jump over. But my belief is just do you, I know it's easier said then done but ignore those nasty comments about the choices you make for you & your child/ren. If you can be 100% for yourself then you can be 100% for you child/ren too, "generally what's best for you is best for baby too." So keep your chins up & do you. Because I'm sure so many people you have no idea about are watching you & are so proud of you even if you don't know it. ❤️ #youngparentsandproud
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